Dear Blog,
I have the need and desire to share an idea new round me in the head from a few days ago about when starting within one sentiments that could lead to fall in love. It is the mirror theory.
Obviously I have not revealed any hidden secret of mankind but I think this theory many times and levels CALM certain feelings when they are beginning to boil
within.
I can summarize the mirror theory as follows
I have the need and desire to share an idea new round me in the head from a few days ago about when starting within one sentiments that could lead to fall in love. It is the mirror theory.
Obviously I have not revealed any hidden secret of mankind but I think this theory many times and levels CALM certain feelings when they are beginning to boil
within. I can summarize the mirror theory as follows
"I am a mirror, if you talk about feelings, I mean, if you give love, give, if advance, advances, ... but if you stop flight. "
The idea is this: we assume that when we meet someone and both consciously and unconsciously noticed an affinity our brain begins to secrete substances that important changes in us reaching be physical (the pressure in the chest, this anxiety to know the other person ..) as well as psychological (I like ... .. like me will like?, insecurities), this is natural when we begin to empathize with someone is a chemical process that is called: LOVE.
The mirror theory is based on reason in helping us to assess whether this chaos must stop, continue or pause the process. And now you'll wonder why you rationalize something as beautiful as the attraction? It is very easy to avoid suffering and to suffer.
People are very complicated, you can find someone that looks wonderful and then be constantly suffering, because they are giving more love and attention than they receive or be manandando receiving messages and silences, and be feeling you're doing stupid things, and ... hundreds and hundreds of details like that. Or the opposite, maybe you're not respecting the other person's space, do not really know if the other person has more "other people" and should be given more time to assemble it all in place, or have questions or injured open the past that have to heal ... In short .. As proposed by my theory is clarity.
The executive summary would be the NEXT: The light / to the person, let her know that you like. From there dedicate to observe and only act when you see a reaction. For example, after a night of passion where everything has been perfect or more than perfect and seems to start something, talk to that person and exposing him JUST like you. The next day send a message to see how it is, if you respond, you will respond. If you are clear to see you, do the same. If you do not clear it or feel that you do not, DO NOT. If it opens, open up, if you get a sign of affection, give him two, if he says he thinks of you, throwing some rope. But and this is important if you see that is losing interest, it works enough, you're a figure more in her book of the week: FLY FLY FRIEND.
Because if you give love, receive love you if you give attention to receive the same. Do not give in exchange pure feelings of fear, indifference, or half measures. No. Respect. Also do not hasten but mostly do not give steps back. Valorate or never will. If they are unable to see anything good in you and take care of that which is born: FLY, FLY HIGH. DES NO STEPS BACK IN YOUR LIFE. LIFE IS MOVING. HAVE A NEW PARTNER IS A NEW OPPORTUNITY TO MAKE OLD NO ERRORS.
People are very complicated, you can find someone that looks wonderful and then be constantly suffering, because they are giving more love and attention than they receive or be manandando receiving messages and silences, and be feeling you're doing stupid things, and ... hundreds and hundreds of details like that. Or the opposite, maybe you're not respecting the other person's space, do not really know if the other person has more "other people" and should be given more time to assemble it all in place, or have questions or injured open the past that have to heal ... In short .. As proposed by my theory is clarity.
The executive summary would be the NEXT: The light / to the person, let her know that you like. From there dedicate to observe and only act when you see a reaction. For example, after a night of passion where everything has been perfect or more than perfect and seems to start something, talk to that person and exposing him JUST like you. The next day send a message to see how it is, if you respond, you will respond. If you are clear to see you, do the same. If you do not clear it or feel that you do not, DO NOT. If it opens, open up, if you get a sign of affection, give him two, if he says he thinks of you, throwing some rope. But and this is important if you see that is losing interest, it works enough, you're a figure more in her book of the week: FLY FLY FRIEND.
Because if you give love, receive love you if you give attention to receive the same. Do not give in exchange pure feelings of fear, indifference, or half measures. No. Respect. Also do not hasten but mostly do not give steps back. Valorate or never will. If they are unable to see anything good in you and take care of that which is born: FLY, FLY HIGH. DES NO STEPS BACK IN YOUR LIFE. LIFE IS MOVING. HAVE A NEW PARTNER IS A NEW OPPORTUNITY TO MAKE OLD NO ERRORS.
Remember that a mirror is not wrong, are a reflection of what you see, than you are, what you get. Talking about feelings if you give more than what you get the result will always be painful for you.
ESO SI. IF YOU GIVE MORE THAN WHAT YOU ARE GIVING, be strong. IF YOU OPEN THE GATES OF HEAVEN AND INVITE YOU TO WALK BY HAND, DO NOT EVER LOOSE. IF YOU LOVE, LOVE, NO LIMITS, NO BARRIERS. BECAUSE THERE IS NOTHING MORE longing for the man since the world began (including during Bush) THE LOVE AND BE LOVED.
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